2010-06-15 - 8:11 p.m.
I came here to write, but I sometimes check to see who is reading, as frankly I feel MORE comfortable when I know there are not many hits on this site.
So discovering 31 hits from a BUFFALO FAMILY LAW firm yesterday was a little irritating.
Maybe it is just a friend working out of some firm.
But I mean I already have one Ex who's lawyers are the only ones who read this darn site.
I would not have expected that as my first Ex and I have been amicable and work out issues regarding the kids together rather well I believe.
I would hope that if he had some concern he would have the courtosey of open communication and discussion as I see no reason he andI can not discuss anything and come to agreement. Unlike the 2nd EX we have NOT had any contentious communication.
Just disappointing as I didn't yet make travel plans with him for the teenagers to come here as I don't want to do so UNTIL I KNOW FOR SURE That I have the closing of the new house CODIFIED and set in stone.
I planned on closing last Thursday. One more kink in the paperwork to iron our that the underwriters have asked for.
The thing is, once again, there is an ODDITY of a record of something not able to be found- this time MY IRS TAXES FOR 2010! They WERE mailed and filed on time. I EVEN HAD REDUNDENCY and the WEIRD thing is that there should ALSO BE E-MAIL FILES that would substantiate and prove my filing of this particular paperwork.
Fortunately I DO HAVE A HARD COPY of a sent and cancelled check.
The image I send of THAT file was received by the loan officer in a corrupted form, as were my other files on this particular item.
Once again, a WEIRD electronic history of somethign I UNEQUIVOKELY TOOK CARE OF.
When the loan officer wanted my LISCENCE, and that one item (that I NEVER LOSE) disappeared, a copy of my passport sufficed (as one example of the work around.)
It is just once again astounding that the paper trail is so hard to find and follow.
I am SO used to this I don't really get flustered anymore.
But its irritating as I KNOW I SHOULD HAVE E-MAILS on this one particular item and they are no where to be found.
CE la vie...