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2022-11-23 - 6:49 a.m. ooooh Black Fri sale on HULU For peeps out there interested $1.99 mo for the next year then $7.99 mo I like HULU- one kid has a student subscription so watch that on occasion! I did binge watch for free few shows of the new seasons of my son's insane crazy show he is on over the top drama, telanova style. So funny! I am not paying to see it for sure. I mean really I can't justify the $20 when not working-- HA HA True-
Just reminder this is a good time of year for subscriptions sales.
I am thinking I need to do something for Christmas for the family. Possibly Apple TV? ( Depending on cost... will look into it.) BUT I am thinking the family will like it too and no good ideas bubbling up yet.
Hmm APPLE TV At Walmart $79 https://tv.apple.com/?ign-itscg=MC_20000&ign-itsct=atvp_brand_omd&mttn3pid=Google%20AdWords&mttnagencyid=a5e&mttncc=US&mttnsiteid=143238&mttnsubad=OUS2019801_1-566295249018-c&mttnsubkw=75222244064__24MBICEg_&mttnsubplmnt=
but with first 3 mos free? I kinda hope to get a better gift idea. Will talk to kids and see if ANYTHING They are interested in DOING That I can support. Art class? Metal sculpture? Marble block carving ? My one kid was looking at studio arts programs for college and I suggested start by taking local classes and I found that. I would rahter support active INTERESTS. Join Makerspace ? OH there is a good idea I brainstorm when I ramble in my writing- AH I will look into that! But now- Time for allergy shot for one and then a trip to pick up college kid. I mean if you are happy and are not feeling hurt and upset by life why would someone else telling you something is not good I mean your experiences are your experiences your reaction should be based on how it made YOU Feel ANYONE KNOWS that abuse is wrong in the moment I think SURE it can become normalized but it NEVER feels good when someone is YELLING At you But it is the OTHER things- that are psycologically abusive I think maybe it is harder to identify? SO I am just still processing the allegation I was abusive to my kid BY My kid here--the brainstorming so to speak of thinking about how and why.... but I think there is this reaction to past memories that can CHANGE if one is reading much and allowing others interpretation of Their experiences to shape their perception That is the part I don't get in the shift to consider things like making your kid go on a hike with family as seeming cruel ( We did go on winter hikes too- but all were dressed appropriately I did not like when I thought a neighbor that caem WAS CRUEL To his kid- She would not out on her coat and he let her walk without it and I thought he was an ass. Carry the coat He left it in the car thinking the kid would learn to listen- Made me not intereted in him....
Now that wasn't mentioned of late by my kid- I don't know- MAYBE to an autistic person the simple act of being made to wear scratchy clothing is as painful as the parent hitting the kid? Maybe that is why this kid is so angry? Like if your perception is that different then I guess we have noramalized ( and I think this is good) Discomfort But the discomfort physically of an austistic person is more intense SO there is a deeper anger at the years of having to conform to the world's expectations. I suppose... Trying to empathize. Guess shouldn't over think it and worry too much as after the moment of saying how I was hated the kid was interacting with family so think just have to let my kid vent and listen and receive it without necessarily understanding it all! I mean without fully understanding the kid's perspective.
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