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2022-07-26 - 7:43 a.m. To continue thoughts on winery friend. Main point was I worry about him and it made me sad a bit to see his struggle. Realized likely the few times I was there when he was not obviously actively drinking, he probably was... but I did not see it... or had just before I stopped by... just masked. I do hope selling the winery is good for his health. I think it will be. I think he was super sad there for recent years after his divorce. Perhaps he should have sold it sooner! Market good for selling now however... The other thing is I think he NEEDS a project at all times. Keeping busy is important. The winery gave him things to do all the time. Sigh.. just hope he does OK and doesn't sprial as some alcoholics do WORSE when the things they used to do end. Retirement can mean an earlier death for some truth be told. Basically he needs a new thing to be his next project. I am sure he gets this! I think that is why he was saying a year ago he wanted to find a new wife and have kids! HA HA NO Lie he was saying he would love to find a young gal and have a couple of kids again and do it all again. But he was talking shit ... like typical... He spent much time with her it seemed-- but he came back alone and I have not heard more of her. But hey I won't knock it- If it works for someone's happiness ( For BOTH OF their happiness of course- even if self centered and narcissistic in the beginning) Well then why not? I used to just judge those guys. And hell, remember the knicknames of Henry and June? My beloved at one point? (At least my lover for a time- Henry) Well... Henry is happilly married now ( Thus why I don't write of him as I don't talk to him or correspond other than the FB keeping a "Friend" So we know what is going on in each other's lifes with fondness of friends. But no , I won't talk to him!) And Henry's wife is one he courted long distance across continents then went to fly to meet and indeed their love blossomed and then he married and they moved back to the states. So you know; he is HAPPY. She is HAPPY! So.. yeah, I think my friends' best chance of health and happiness is to honestly do what makes him happy. Just hope he can get a handle on his drinking to be functional ( if there is such a thing REALLY as a functional alcoholic). But the fear is he is too far advanced with that illness and health problems that it is not likely he could do that with success.. IDK thought and he is doing it. YEAH I Think perhaps my friend WILL BE OK. This ramble was to kill time- as I want to start work at 8AM SHARP. Have a headache. Hydrated and took a covid test ( negative). Don't feel like getting up YET. I finally found the CRICKET in my shower and brought the poor creature outside where I deposited it in my front flower bed near the rose bush. There should be lots of food and water for it there. It looks dehydrated with brown on it! (ok starting work at 8:10 close enough and easy to track exact time!) � � |